Saturday, September 20, 2008
There are different types of romances -such as long distance,puppy love,college relation ship
and court ship.
But the most never -racking and difficult relationship for any girl or guy is the office romance.company policies ,a prejudiced boss,bitchy colleagues ,makes it one of the most traumatic bonds.This creates problems between the couples and possibly even had bad break up.If you want to be respected as a couple,and be a fine example for others to follow,just make sure u following these simple steps
1. NO ONE CAN KEEP A SECRET:so don't bother to keep your relationship secret.your colleagues will ultimately find out,and it will became the biggest scandal of the year.mean tales will be spread,and your reputation will be ruined.so be open about it.It doesn't mean that you confess your love openly.But do tell your close friends.
2. NO PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION:public display affection(PDA)is forbidden in the office.No feeding each other in the lunch break,holding each other's hand.blowing kisses or any of the mushy stuff in office.It will be very embarrassing if you get caught,and everyone right from the office boy to the CEO,will find out about it.
3. SPEND TIME WITH CO-WORKERS:your relationship should not change your attitude and behavior towards your other colleagues.they will be hurt.if you spend time only with your partner,and distance yourself from them.soon,it will be all of them against both of you and they will be the first one to bitch about you.
4. NO SHOW -DOWN:you may have had a fight with your girl friend or boy friend,but don't carry it to work-don't fight,cry or do anything stupid like showing your emotion at office
5. KEEP IT PROFESSIONAL :in the office,your co-worker first,love interest second.so don not interact in his/her work and don't take sides.If your girl friend has got into trouble at wok.it is not your responsibility to save her.
6. GIVE IT A NAME:Are you dating casually?
Are you in love? OR are you engaged to be married?Inform people about the status of your relationship clearly,so that there is no room for misconception or confusion
7. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER:All the previous points will not work if you don't communicate with your partner
Posted by sultan at 2:16 AM
What you listen to won't define who you are,but who you are may certainly dictate what you listen to.and most teens will testify While the tendency to type cast is strongest in adolescence ,there's no denying peers will make perceptions based on your choice of music.
Obvious assumptions are funniest,"i can't imagine any self respecting guy listening to straight pop music .If his friends don't shake him out of it,he's moving in the wrong circles.
The connotation the most heavy ,thrash metal listeners carry is a supposed they like the sort of image,never mind if they are not quiet so in everything but appearence..
I CAN'T HELP THINK THAT PEOPLE LISTENING TO POP MUSIC HAVE LESSER CREATIVITY .ACCORDING TO ME,MUSIC IS VERY VISUAL AND EVERYONE LISTENS TO MUSIC ACCORDING TO HIS OR HER SELF IMAGE
Posted by sultan at 1:51 AM
Monday, September 15, 2008
Smart girls are sexy they're witty,insightful and they're always wearing those funky dark-rimmed glasses.OKAY ,maybe we're generalising a bit,but our point is that it's wort your time to learn how to pick up a smart gal.we're talking about the kind of woman who gets all your jokes.she's a great conversationalist and she's genuinely interested in the world around her.So the only question is.how do you attract intelligent women?,initially,it may be seems as if the two of you don't have much in common.Those obstacles,however can be easily over come.
- DON'T TAKE IT:When u trying to pick up the smart gal.it's imperative that you don't under any circumstances pretend to know something that you don't.First,she'll probably see right through your sorry act.Trying to sound smart will only make you sound dumb or worse pretentious .
- DON'T DEFER TO HER INTELLIGENCE:OK,so you don't want to act like a know-it-all.but don't get caught playing dumb either.just don't have fawn over her.Even if you're legtimately in awe og her intelligence,don't let on,giving her compliments like 'WOW YOU"RE SO SMART 'OR"I NEVER WOULD HAVE THOUGHT OF THAT"MAY SEEM HARMLESS
- BE HONEST ABOUT WHAT YOU KNOW:when you meet a really intelligent woman,you might find difficult to carry a conversation if the tow of u don't share many common interests.But just because you haven't had the experience doesn't mean she's out of your league.
Posted by sultan at 1:12 AM