Tuesday, December 30, 2008

3 WAYS TO BALANCE YOUR FRIENDS AND GIRL FRIEND

one of the most challenging aspects of being in a relationship is figuring out how to balance your friends and girlfriend. it's a delicate balance, and mishandling the situation could have serious consequences. if you blow off your girlfriend one too many times, you'll be single  before you know it, but your friend won't remain friends with you for very long if you consistently flake out on them. the people who care about you deserve your time; the key is sorting out how to drive that time fairly between the important people in your life. take a look at these tips for balancing your friends and girlfriend. 
1. PLAN TIME WITH EACH: your friends have always just called you up when they're in the mood to go out. meanwhile your girlfriend has started assuming that you'll be spending every weekend together . the  problem is that you can just drop everything and hang out with them. in an effort to balance your friends and girlfriend, a little planning goes a long way. it may seem officious or uptight, but scheduling will you help you make the most of your time.

 2 RESPECT SACRED OCCASIONS: as u try to balance your friend and girlfriend, it's essential to acknowledge that some things you absolutely cannot ditch out on. for example you pretty well have to spend new year's with your girlfriend , even if you buddies are planning a road trip while all she want to do is attend a party at her BB F's. similarly, you can't under any circumstances let your girlfriend talk you into blowing off scared guy time like your fantasy football draft or your annual camping trip. recognise that some things are scared and you'll be more likely to balance your friends and girlfriend. 

3HOST PARTIES: hosting parties is another way for you bring your friends and your friends and your girlfriend together your friend will be especially keen to attend a party hosted by you and  your girlfriend because they'll be keen to meet some of your girlfriend's single friends. 

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